I missed this in your first post :
You are using ASE as your consolidated database, but using the SQL Anywhere ODBC Driver to connect MobiLink to the ASE consolidated database? That won't work, and I'm actually shocked you got as far as you did.
If your consolidated database is ASE, you should be using an ASE ODBC Driver to connect the ML Server to the consolidated database.
See http://scn.sap.com/docs/DOC-40721 for the recommendation on the ODBC Driver you should be using.
Reg